The second reply

I will do one as if I was addressing people at your funeral and one as if you and I were alone together in a room as you have described. The two are very different. The first, consisting of thoughts and memories that I would wish to share with others about the experience of you. The second, thoughts and feelings I would share with no one...not even you. But since you ask...It may take some time, but I will send it. I am honored by your request.